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"It's our expectations that hurt us. Not reality. Whatever happens in actuality is real. What we think should happen, in the world is unreal. 

 

So people hurt by their expectations. We're not disappointed by what we find, we are only ever disappointed when our expectations DON'T become reality."

 

Prof. Gerard Egan

(Author of the Skilled Helper)

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A life coach isn't a therapist, so they can't treat mental health conditions. However, they can provide guidance that helps inspire positive changes in your life. They might help you find a sense of purpose, develop your creativity, manage your stress, and overcome bad habits that are holding you back from reaching your goals.

A life coach can provide general guidance, but they may also focus on specific areas such as dating, work, finances, fitness, and leadership. Keep reading to learn more about why you might benefit from working with a life coach.

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What is a Life Coach?

 

Life coaches draw on their specialized education, unique life experiences, and targeted training to help people identify and work toward key personal development goals. They provide services in both one-on-one and group settings through private practices, individual meetings, site visits, and teleconferencing platforms.

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Life coaching is a “partnering with clients in a thought-provoking and creative process that inspires them to maximize their personal and professional potential.”  

 

What this means is that a life coach doesn’t diagnose, dispense advice, or tell clients what to do. Instead, they create a strategic thinking partnership with the client. 

 

In the space of coaching, a life coach helps others clarify their goals, values and life purpose. The coach also assists in identifying (and overcoming!) whatever may be getting in the way of achieving those aspirations.

A well-trained life coach understands and applies coaching theories and models of change, bringing tools for self-inquiry, focus, and accountability to the table. 

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Through life coaching, clients may:

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  • Boost their self-confidence and self-awareness

  • Build healthier and more reliable decision-making abilities

  •  Achieve clarity on personal and professional goals and paths

  •  Find new ways to take strong, determined actions toward key objectives

  •  Maximize their potential

  •  Better work-life balance

  •  Enhanced creativity

  •  Greater financial security

  •  Improved communication skills

  •  More satisfying work life

  •  Stronger relationships with friends and family

 

Coaches guide clients to these benefits through a variety of specialized approaches, including targeted questioning, visualization exercises, and reframing techniques. Coach practitioners may also use methods borrowed from mental health disciplines like psychotherapy. For instance, some coaches draw on cognitive behavior therapy (CBT) models.

 

Some well-known and high-profile life coaches include:

  • Anthony "Tony" Robbins

  • Esther Perel

  • Rich Litvin

  • Robin Sharma

  • Steve Chandler​

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What to Expect From a Life Coach

With many life coaches, you can expect to discuss specific goals you have for the future. A life coach often provides support that is essential for gaining momentum toward your goals. A good coach can recognize when you get stuck, and help you regain motivation.

Accountability is one of the prime advantages of working with a life coach. As a result of working with a life coach, clients often achieve their goals more quickly and efficiently than they would if working on their own.

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Potential Pitfalls of Working With a Life Coach 

Before you see a life coach, there are a few potential pitfalls that you should watch for:

Don't Expect Immediate Results 

Your life coach can help you make plans, address problems, and work toward achieving your goals, but it is important to remember that these things take time. If may be helpful if you set some short-term and long-term goals to work toward.

Choose the Right Kind of Life Coach 

Consider if your coach is suited to your needs. Not all life coaches take the same approach to a problem, so what you get out of the process may have a lot to do with the type of relationship you have with your coach. Look for a coach that is suited to working with your personality type and approach to solving problems.

Choose the Right Kind of Help 

Don't see a life coach to address serious mental health issues. If you are experiencing symptoms of a mental health condition such as depression or anxiety, you should talk to your doctor or therapist to discuss your treatment options. Life coaches can offer advice that can improve your well-being, but that does not mean they can provide mental health treatment.

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When to See a Therapist vs. a Life Coach

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Life coaching and therapy are two distinct fields. While both are dedicated to helping individuals improve their lives, they approach this goal from different angles. To understand these differences better, let’s delve into the world of therapy versus life coaching.

A mental health professional who treats mental health conditions, such as a psychologist or psychiatrist, can prescribe medication for those experiencing symptoms related to specific health conditions. They provide mental health treatment based on diagnosing disorders such as depression or anxiety that may require medication in addition to talk therapy.

In contrast, a life coach helps clients build personal growth strategies without focusing on past traumas or clinical diagnoses. Instead, coaches focus more on future aspirations and current challenges impacting one’s personal lives and professional goals. This isn’t about treating psychological ailments but fostering improved self-awareness for achieving goals.

The distinction is crucial because people seek different types of help depending upon their needs at any given time. For instance, do they need assistance dealing with diagnosed mental issues? Or are they looking for guidance towards accomplishing set targets?

 

Navigating the Role Differences

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An effective way to visualize it is imagining your journey through life as sailing across an ocean. A therapist might be compared to a ship mechanic, someone who can fix problems when something goes wrong below deck. In contast, a life coach serves as your compass, guiding you toward desired destinations while navigating any challenges you may encounter.

Facts: Nearly three-quarters of life coaches hold certification from a professional coaching institution making them competent navigators aiding you reach potential peaks in personal development.

 

The Appropriate Time For Each Service

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Deciding between therapy and life coaching largely depends on your present state of mind. If you’re feeling overwhelmed by emotions that are disrupting your daily life, it is advisable to seek the help of a mental health professional.

On the other hand, if you’re generally doing okay but find yourself snagged in certain areas (like your career path), a coach can give that necessary nudge to leap over those obstacles.

How Effective Is a Life Coach? 

While people may report subjective benefits after seeing a life coach, there have also been studies that have shown that life coaching can be beneficial in a number of areas:

  • One study found that both individual and group coaching was helpful in reducing procrastination and improving goal attainment.

  • One review of studies found that health and wellness coaching showed promise for improving self-efficacy and self-empowerment.

  • A 2020 study published in Frontiers in Psychology found that coaching-based leadership interventions could be effective for enhancing well-being and improving organizational functioning.

Research suggests that life coaching can have a range of positive effects, including improvements in personal insight and improved self-reflection. It may also help improve overall mental health and quality of life.

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